My Ideal Person:
In reality the role of sub and Dom are, in my mind, a mirror image. By having the safe word, the sub is really in control. It is the Dom's role to competently take her to where she needs to be. She doesn't want the responsibility for that journey, that why the Dom 'must' be the Master (no hesitation, no room for error) Her limit is in its own way, an orgasm, a climax of where all her emotions intersect. I derive the pleasure, as with giving a girlfriend the ultimate orgasm, of bringing her to that point. From soft to hard, from cold to hot, from tactile to scent, each is a caress growing to a crescendo that applied correctly gives both me and her satisfaction. I love 'sexy cunts' and have enough authority and power to maintain a relationship with the wildest child: but will not tolerate kindly those who mistake kindness for weakness. Not interested in women who want to be merely subjegated and oppressed, with their pleasure blunted and brutalised, just so they think it makes them your object and thus somehow 'belong' to you.