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[color black]I'm an intelligent, well-educated, responsible, careful, rather perverted geek, who nonetheless has good social skills and a sense of humor. Okay, the sense of humor tends to run towards irony, wordplay, and could be described as somewhat twisted -- but it IS a sense of humor! I also am a person of high integrity and look for that in others.
In the multidimensional continuum of dom-to-sub, top-to-bottom, sadist-to-masochist, etc., to describe myself as a "switch" seems kind of weak. I'm more sub/bottom than dominant/top, though I quite enjoy topping women as well. I'm not exactly a sadist or a masochist [i]per se[/i], but find that adding pain to a scene can help add a certain... intensity... that helps build the psychological part of the scene.
I've a diverse range of interests in kink, though wouldn't expect to necessarily share more than a portion of those with any one person. I figure, enjoy what both people enjoy, and don't worry about the rest. My answer to the "other questions" section by and large represent things I'd be willing to try, carefully, so learn more about me there
[COLOR orange]For the record, I can't reliably read minds, at least on short notice, and being expected to do so is a definite turn-off![COLOR black] Not that's it's been an issue, but I figured best to make it clear from the outset!
Reading my blog is another good way to get to know me (scroll down to the bottom of this profile, and look for it on the left). Should you wish to contact me, but perhaps Alt won't let you through an e-mail below because you're a "standard" member and I won't pay them more for letting standard members contact me, visit [post 613068] and leave a response. It will get to me privately, without posting publicly, and I can get in touch with you that way.
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My Ideal Person:
I'm hoping to find an intelligent, responsible, careful woman who enjoys at least occasionally being sexually dominant for safe, sane, consensual BDSM play. I've switched top/bottom before and would enjoy doing so again with the right person, but I'm looking for a woman who really enjoys being dominant, somewhat (lightly to moderately) sadistic, and (within scene) forcing herself on her submissive (as opposed to a woman truly a sub, but who is willing to top even if she doesn't get off on it).
I'm also interested in playing with submissive women whose kinks dovetail fairly well with mine (though see my note above about enjoying shared interests and not worrying about the others)
I'm looking initially for an occasional (but always discrete) play partner, not (yet?) an LTR -- someone interested in getting together maybe one to four times a month for several hours of revelling in the roles we enjoy and exploring new ways of expressing them. Body type and physical appearance, while not completely irrelevant, are far from being of primary importance. Most important to me is integrity, trustworthiness, reliability, and a genuine interest in negotiating carefully to find areas we're interested in exploring and are willing to try, in hopes of finding kinds of play that give us both that delicious, nasty satisfaction we're seeking from BDSM play!
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