I'm a 29 year old Dominant man originally from NYC. Now transplanted in Christiansburg. I like to laugh about life and take in each new day as a new experience. I'm not a smoker, I only drink socially (mainly after I learned to bartend) and I've never and will never do drugs. I decided to start dating recently when I stumbled upon this place and found exactly there were others looking for the same things I was.
I've had a thing for BDSM for quite awhile after I was taught and explored my Dominant nature by some lovely ladies that I will always be grateful to. And it was here that I found a place where I could talk to and expand my mind with like-minded people. It was also here that I discovered that there are subs out there who are looking for what I am.
I'm open minded about most things but my main hard limits are blood play and permanent damage. These are things that I just can't bring myself to do. Also I'm not into polyamory as I'm really a 1 on 1 kind of guy. Nor am I looking for a 24/7 sub. I want my potential partner to have and enjoy her own life outside of home; whether I'm with her or not.
I'm not just looking for sex and I'm not looking to play around. I'd like to find a sub who's interested in building a relationship. Hopefully a long term one. I believe that submission is not something given easily. It requires trust. And that trust is only built over time.
Past that, I like to think of myself as versatile: I can be gentle and I can be rough. I love to speak soothing words and I can definitely be brash.
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My Ideal Person:
I'd like to find a sub that's not that much older than me. For a long term relationship I'd like her to be no older than 40. Barring that I'm open to all races. Whether she be experienced or new to BDSM I have no problem with. Even when we know a lot we still learn with each new person we meet.
The main thing I'd like to stress, though, is no matter what roles my potential partner and I might play or what I might say or do to her, in my heart I'd still care for and respect you. Mainly because this is what you want and that you'd trust me that much to give it to you. How can I not respect that much faith and trust?
So, I'm hoping to find 'The One' for me. Here's hoping I can find her here!
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