Single bottom male; Quiet, polite, somewhat shy and a bit of a nerd but happy being who I am. Open to the idea of meeting someone interesting.
I am primarily looking for someone who I get on well with, but this is difficult to tell over the internet and meeting in person is the only way to find out if we click or not. I have often found that the people who I have the best rapport with are not always those who I agree most with, or those who I would have predicted that I would hit it off with from a list of attributes or interests.
I'm much more of a bottom than a sub, at least up until I get to know and trust someone pretty well, but I'm not the pushy or needy type of bottom that I've heard a lot about. I just get confused by the idea that anyone can talk about anything long term or full time after one meeting or a handful of messages. Trust takes time to develop after all, but I am happy to chat with anyone interesting, explore mutual interests and follow where that leads.
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My Ideal Person:
I am primarily looking for someone who I get on well with, but this is difficult to tell over the internet and meeting in person is the only way to find out if we click or not. I have often found that the people who I have the best rapport with are not always those who I agree most with, or those who I would have predicted that I would hit it off with from a list of attributes or interests.
I've always liked sadistic women, although this needs to come together with a responsible attitude and ethical boundaries. It is more the interaction rather than the pain or any specific activity that interests me and I prefer to interact with a person than with an act or caricature, and it needs to be a person who I both like and trust.
I'm only really interested in real time. Cyber does not interest me at all. I am happy to speak to anyone sane, especially interesting people who make me think.
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