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I have been 'Dominant' in mind and in my nature from a young age and with age has come an inner assuredness and confidence in myself. I first came across 'BDSM' around the mid / late 1990's.Over the years my tastes developed and continue to adapt.
I am above all else a very passionate and caring man with an extremely strong predilection for a Master /pet and a Daddy /Princess dynamic; Neither make me a paedophile I will stress. I love the psychological aspects of Domination and submission. Creating that dynamic through continued firmness and assurance with a genuine empathy that every submissive natured and minded person needs.
For anything worthwhile to be created on the basis of the initial 'connection' of minds, it is crucial for me to first learn about a submissive, in order for me to guide and control her I first must get to know her. This applies no matter what level the 'relationship' is; whether it be simply for fun, to share mutual kinks and sensual intimacy, if it is something more meaningful and regular or if it is a long-term relationship.
Mutual trust and respect are vital on any level and the fun element is also vital for me, there is always an element of intensity by the very nature of the Dom/sub exchange.
My approach is my own, I do not aspire to model myself on a stereotype. In my life away from BDSM and my kinks, I am polite, respectful and charming; often told that 'from the outside no one would guess the things that I enjoy and get-up to'!
For me this is not about extremes after al what one person believes extreme another might consider mild, it is all about the reality between me and the submissive.
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My Ideal Person:
A person to befriend and to explore with, who feels a desire, possibly a need inside herself to find a release for those feelings and thoughts that most likely she keeps to herself, or she has tried to! The length of anything that we might share will be up to the both of us; I keep an open mind and while the dynamic is there and we are both getting what we desire (and need) then it will be wonderful.
You will value yourself as a person and only seek to offer your gift of submission (the level and depth that you are comfortable to surrender) to someone that respects that and that you trust and respect (Me of course)
You will be intelligent, articulate and open minded. Fun to be with and happy in your own skin and mind. You should be comfortable or at least accepting (for my pleasure) wearing a collar when with me, of taking the role of MY pet and / or MY slut Princess and of indulging in a heavily sexualised 'relationship, enjoying sensual, erotic and passionate times with me.
Not necessarily experienced in the Master / per or Daddy / Princess dynamics or within BDSM itself(and experience is no measure of competence!)
The main 'qualification' is a desire to explore those feelings and thoughts inside, a sense of fun, enthusiasm and time to dedicate to me - to 'us'.
Everything else we can and will work to achieving with my guidance and control.
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