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Am looking for spank play, your cheeks, mine or maybe both? Life's a Switch n then you fly!
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Gender:   Man
Birthdate:   July 25, 1959
(58 years old)
Astrological Compatibility
Lives in:   Caterham, Surrey, United Kingdom
Relocate?:   No
Height:   5 ft 7 in / 170-172 cm
Body Type:   Average
Smoking:   I'm a non-smoker
Drinking:   I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs:   I don't use drugs
Education:   High school graduate
Race:   Caucasian
Sexual Orientation:   Bi-curious
Speaks:   English, None
Hair Color:   Brown
Hair Length :   Short
Eye Color :   Green
Glasses or Contacts :   None

Activities Enjoyed:   {"67":"Voyeurism|2|10","743":"Whips|2|10","33":"Exhibitionism/Sex In Public|1|6","63":"Toys|2|6","21":"Cock and Ball Torture, Clamps, etc.|1|6","4990":"Mini Skirts|2|10","80":"Biting|1|6","771":"Masturbation|2|10","2":"Age Play|2|10","331":"Pantyhose/Stockings|2|10","30":"Dildos (Handheld & Strap-ons)|1|6","44":"Masks|2|6","82":"Massage|2|2","84":"Oral Sex|2|2","74":"Making Home \"Movies\"|1|6","25":"Dacryphilia (Arousal from Tears)|1|1","27":"Depilation/Shaving|2|1","83":"Mutual Masturbation|2|6","61":"Master/Slave|1|6","17074":"Leather Skirt|2|10","17178":"panties|2|10","17067":"stockings and highheels|2|10","14":"Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc.|2|1","59":"Sadism|2|10","69":"Cross Dressing|2|6","31":"Domination|1|6","35":"Feathers|2|6","53":"The Rack/Medieval Devices|1|6","79":"Sex During Menstruation|2|10","48":"Oral Fixation|1|2","728":"Spanking/Paddling|2|10","87":"Tickling|2|10","77":"Pinching|2|10","46":"Nipples|2|6","214":"Lace/Lingerie|2|10","29":"Sadism/Masochism|2|6","6":"Ass Play|2|6","85":"Anal Sex|2|1","64":"Transvestism|2|6","36":"Fisting|2|10","9":"Blindfolds|1|6","12":"Bondage|1|6","38":"Handcuffs/Shackles|1|1","3378":"TS/TV/TG|2|6","4":"Pain|2|6","56":"Rimming|2|2","66":"Vibrators|2|6","73":"Lactation|1|1","45":"Masochism|1|6","76":"Participating in Erotic Photography|2|6","19":"Chinese Balls/Ben Wa Balls/Anal Beads|1|6","43":"Leather|2|6","5":"High Heels|2|6"}
I think about ALT lifestyle:   All the time
Role:   Switch
Level of Experience:   More than five years
Dress:   Other
Social Orientation :   Not applicable
Safe Sex:   Yes
Demeanor:   Average

Facial Hair: None
Body Hair: Average
Body Decorations : None
Male Endowment: Average/
Circumcised: No
Marital Status: Divorced
Have Children: Yes. We do not live together.
Want Children : Happy with what I have
Occupation: Paralegal Office Man
Religion: Agnostic


58 year old Man in Caterham, Surrey, United Kingdom Looking For: Women or TS/TV/TG

Profile for Spankstoyounme
Fancy a bit of 2 way hanky spanky with a cd for play like me? Ladies TVs etc We should just go for it! I do think sometimes we are a bit quick to assume that we are either dom or sub, top or bottom but if we keep an open mind all are the ambrosia of the pleasure we seek...

Why not join my group "Croydon - Surrey like to play?" if you are of a similar mind. Your location is not that important but more regular participants would make the group more interesting.

Among other things dressing up for play and switching for both of us is really what I enjoy. Although I would enjoy just spanking n whipping etc or receiving same, I am really looking for a lady or cd/tv/tg/ts who is happy to switch, and do plenty of vanilla stuff in addition to everything else I have listed on my profile.

Please get in touch and/or perhaps consider joining the small group that I run on alt, called Croydon -Surrey like to play?" if you think you you would like to play with me...I am naturally hedonistic and certainly more than a little enthusiastic about spanking particularly as an aperitif to sex.

Although I will admit that spanking , caning etc can be a serious turn on for me anyway, I also enjoy bedroom fun and occasional limited cross dressing stuff that over the last few years has evolved into various black and or silver sheer tops with very short black leather/lace mini dresses or skirts generally now worn with black hold-ups and black high heeled shoes or kinky goth style boots.
I always enjoy my nylons against your nylons it is just such a tactile turn-on! Well yes but probably not for everyone so its not essential - maybe I shouldn't have mentioned it? Oh I don't know!

As my title indicates I think it should be a two way thing that both can enjoy. Although I would consider myself a natural switch I would be happy to experiment with a top or sub and just see how things go. There is definitely room in my world for vanilla too. Spanking is great as taster but I have moved on to crops, paddles, whips and other more interesting buttock WMDs as the main course

I cannot be sure but could possibly enjoy a broader menu if introduced by the right enthusiast.

More generally I love music and have fairly broad and eclectic tastes there as well, read a fair amount of thriller type novels and fantasy genre literature. I enjoy most types of movies maybe with a bottle of wine.

Before the wine, please remind me to bring my camera as I really enjoy photography involving people who just feel special - copies for you via memory card on you computer at the time if you like but no charge of course.

I am divorced.

Please get in touch if you like the sound of my brief but honest intro [if254 1]

My Ideal Person:
Preferably younger than me, ideally a female or cd/tv/ts/tg switch interested in play and maybe more.

Someone who like to play but may prefer a relationship rather than just casual play. I welcome casual play at present but would not want that if I find happiness in a LTR.

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