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I am looking for a submissive female who shares my seemingly contradictory desires for normalcy and BDSM. I have a great family, close friends, a respectable job and lead a stable, secure, "normal" life. My desire for BDSM is not obvious from looking at me or having a superficial understanding of my personality. The girl that is right for me is similarly "normal" but with a burning desire for submission. She's the girl I can take home to the parents; the normal girl with a dark, dirty secret.
While BDSM does not rule my life, I recognize that I cannot be complete without the intimacy and passion that this lifestyle can give.
What I want to find:
I need a woman who is, on the exterior, the consummate girlfriend. Smart, caring, thoughtful, friendly, etc. I want to come home after a long day to a hug and a kiss. I want to celebrate a good day with a glass of wine, a hug, and a kiss.
Sexually, I like it rough so my match must be similarly oriented. I like to be hard and demanding. She should as well. I like bondage and SM. I take control and enjoy power and seeing obedience. She must be my complement.
The girl that's right for me has to understand the polarity that exists within me--a well-rounded, educated, stable gentleman but also a demanding, BDSM-craving, experienced dominant. I like to make love. I also like it rough. I like to be romantic. I also like ripping or cutting your clothes off to get at what I want. I like stroking and brushing your hair but also yanking on it when it strikes my fancy. I will cherish you like the treasure that you are and use you like the toy you want to be.
Most don't fit into my desires and as much as that frustrates me, I continue my hunt until I find her.
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My Ideal Person:
I hope to find someone who fits into all of the above and is local. I am not against traveling but please understand that I want a relationship and therefore need someone who is within reasonable driving distance.
I also need someone who meshes well with my personality. For a quick taste of that personality, here is some useless information about me...
· I'm athletic and have always enjoyed exercising. I am drug and disease free and don't drink or smoke (although I am not against my girl doing such things).
· I love to laugh and tend to seek out environments or situations that induce laughter (i.e. time with friends, movies, and comedy clubs).
· I am a romantic/sentimental person and am happy to spend time alone with my special someone doing nothing and everything at the same time.
I'm not bald, I'm...
aerodynamic
tired of paying for shampoo
Moby 24/7/365
a hairstyle trend-setter
over-donating my locks to others
a guinea pig for experimental drugs
just tired of split ends
happy with the "get-up-and-go" look
just unable to put it where I want it
simply not in the need of a hairdresser at this moment.
just taller than my hair
more useless information:
I love playing tennis but am among the worst players in the history of the sport (you mean a homerun isn't a good thing?)
bowling, similarly, is great fun but I've only gotten over 150 on one occasion (but even that is questionable since I havent mastered the whole scoring thing yet).
My last attempt at rollerblading resulted in me ramming a neighbor's mailbox with my shoulder. Luckily for me (I think), the neighbor saw the whole thing and refused to let me pay for the damaged box. "It was worth it just to see it," he said. The mailbox, leaning and dented, is still there today.
Top Ten unhealthy foods that I love:
10) twizzlers
9) chips and dip (rippled chips and Helluva Good dip)
 Hot chocolate
7) Tea (I need lots of sugar or honey)
6) cheese (colby cheese)
5) snickers
4) pizza (has to have mushrooms)
3) hash browns
2) chicken (Boston Market...mmm)
1) macaroni and cheese! the non-chef's favorite
Top ten things that frustrate me (in no particular order):
10)traffic jams
9) finding a place to park in cities. Then handing over your keys to a stranger but only after giving him money!
impatient people
7) inconsiderate people
6) anyone who abuses anyone, especially women and/or children
5) conservative politics
4) not being able to sleep in on weekends
3) not being able to fix problems with a home
2) being away from friends and family
1) being alone!
Top ten things that excite me:
10) romance
9) massages
exercise
7) BDSM
6) kissing
5) sleeping
4) sleeping with someone in my arms
3) BDSM
2) the Steelers
1) BDSM
Top Ten ways to earn bonus points from me:
10) saying "please" and "thank you" and asking with "may I" instead of "can I"
9) laughing at my insipid jokes and my goofy sense of humor
remembering my birthday
7) being thoughtful
6) making food for me, especially my favorites (see above for details)
5) holding my hand or my arm when out in public and doing so before I grab yours
4) taking a picture of us together with me wearing my "chicks dig me" T-shirt
3) exercising with me, especially playing golf together (mini or regular) and watching football together
2) writing letters to me
1) emailing me, especially if we've never spoken before and you find me attractive. Please write me! Huge bonus points for that one!
I hope to hear from you very soon!
I will answer any and all emails I receive and yes, I do have pictures to trade. I look forward to hearing from you!
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