What I am seeking is first is a submissive/slave that wants a lifetime conversation in her D/s relationship. This means a level of intimacy in which she gives her every thought, need, dream, hope, fear, fantasy, hope, desire, ambition. That takes being able to give total trust and feeling totally safe that what you have given will not come back to bite you in the ass. That mental, emotional, physical, sexual, psychological safety, space you never want to leave.
The second thing begins after we have that intimacy. That's when the D/s relationship begins...the absolute permission to use that knowledge.
I need my sub/slave not be afraid to live our relationship in public and private. Obedience, discipline, rules, rituals are very important to me. I need a sub/slave who is the exhibitionist, enjoys being extremely feminine, being her Master's shadow, in his life totally. It is not a you do your thing, I do my thing and we meet occasionally for fun.
For sexual kink, most anything goes except . The kink for me, comes out of the relationship, and that makes everything possible. I don't want to start by putting ourselves in a box, I want to build our own box.
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