Howdy,
I am fairly new to the alt scene and have been curious to try this out for some time. I am a pretty outgoing person for someone who has a bit of a social phobia, but like everything else in my life I like to face and confront challenges (potentially a large reason I am on here). I work as a medic for two companies and volunteer as a rescue diver. I recently use to work in neuro-imaging research for psychosis, but I decided I was tired of jumping from contract to contract.
I have many interests and am always trying to learn new things. I dabble in many things. I have been a small claims mediator, juvenile probation counselor, I have managed an art therapy group, and am about to start designing science projects for elementary classes. I am fond of ETOH and function quite well as an "alcoholic" (jokes). I am not huge on the bar scene, but enjoy it with a good group. I'd prefer to stay in and drink with friends. I use to enjoy mary jane, but don't have time for it anymore, so I avoid being put in the situation that would temp me to smoke.
I guess I am on here to try out the sub side of bondage. I have always played the role of dom in my past relationships and have really only experimented with bondage from time to time. I typically take lead in the bedroom and want to switch roles. I have recently found that I enjoy ass play and see it as an opportunity to test myself while having some fun as well. Pain doesn't scare me, but of course I have my limits like everyone. I would be curious to take things to my limits and find out what they are.
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My Ideal Person:
I'd like to start out by saying that I am very straight. Nothing against guys or homosexuality, I am just not attracted personally. I am looking for one or two girls to experiment in BDSM with, switching between roles, and figuring out how to play both better. I also wouldn't mind finding a woman that would like to show me the ropes. Physical attributes are important in a play partner, but I am pretty sapiosexual. The human mind fascinates me and a beautiful mind will win me over every time. She's got to be kinky and willing to push boundaries. I always go for strong confident women. I am an equalist, believing that everyone as equal potential depending on how hard they are willing to work, so when I look for a partner, I am looking for an equal, not a follower. That being said, I am also always down to just have some good fun.
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