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Ah right, the tricky task of the self sell introduction; having of walk the fine line between highlighting your good points and not coming across as a self important arse :-)
Using the classic labels, I would describe myself as a Dominant and a fetishist; however I'm just me -labels can be somewhat limiting. Although some people have said I 'look like a sub', I can assure you that I have no interest in subbing to someone.
I would classify myself as intelligent and inventive with an ever active mind. Therefore if I were to be trying to create a 'scene', I prefer to put in the leg work and get the old grey matter working instead of just reaching for the gag, latex and cuffs and getting right to it. Maybe trying to create something that starts up nice and slow, maybe even with a romantic feeling set somewhere. Allowing the mind to wonder as we interact (in roles, situations or free-styling) and for the feelings to build up gently in a setting where they can't be instantly acted upon. Some mental foreplay if you will; getting the emotional juices flowing before anything else gets started ;-)
For me it's all about the planning and the build up to get something really good; to simulate the mind before even touching the body. Once your mind is in the right place, your body is more eager to follow those devious thoughts going through your head. As my tagline states, planning to go out to have a steak at a nice restaurant is so much better than rushing to a McDonalds for some instant gratification -even though you get fed in both instances.
Even though I am I Dom, I still have manners and respect for all; so don't expect me to assume you are my 'slave' within first contact. For me building up a good and solid D/s relationship requires a high level trust and understanding of each other first; finding out what makes someone else tick and what they enjoy and hate within their roles with it. Therefore you won't find a picture of my penis in my profile; I'm a boy and have one, you know that and so do I -there is no point me debasing myself by putting a picture of it up there and I wouldn't demean you in assuming that it would be exciting -or even different. God someone 'boys' on here clearly think only with it, so are eager to show off their point of knowledge :-)
On the fetishist side, my main fetishes are latex and rubber; therefore I would like to find someone with either a similar intrigue or enjoyment of this wonderful material -or at least would be willing to try it out as something new and interesting. In reality, I don't think I have met any sub that doesn't feel more sexy when they have tried it on ;-)
As far as personal experience goes, I have been in D/s relationships before and for a while; actually I think I have always known that this aspect of my personality has always existed and it's always been something I have strived to have within my life and with a partner.
You might be able to surmise from this somewhat long winded introduction that I'm not in the market for a quick kinky fuck and you'd be right. To bring out the true submissive in someone, you need to know them first. So that, in time, you know exactly what buttons to press to allow them to feel their own true feelings of submission, without feeling in danger or simply being used for solely a Dom's fulfilment. This is what I seek, a connection; true something within the realms of BDSM, D/s and the fetish arena, but something with more than a modicum of deeper meaning than a sex with ropes & chains :-)
In addition to the more classical D/s style relationships, I have also experienced and enjoyed DD/lg based relationships. After all sometimes you need your Master, and sometimes you need your Daddy; plus who doesn't like being someone's special princess and being called a good girl.
That said, I wouldn't say that I'm only looking for 'the one', I'm also looking for friends with similar kinks and interests; people the chew the kinky fat with & to gain even more experience from -you can never know too much.
All this, however, isn't the only thing that concerns my life. I also enjoy the countryside, exploring new places in London, going to see live comedy and a cacophony of other things. You've got to have a varied life after all.
Mmmm: that's plenty now I think. Stall set, myself explained.
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My Ideal Person:
Someone that knows what they want in life, someone that is not afraid of their own needs and desires. Someone that is willing to think outside the box.
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