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No, I'm not going to use the strap on with you.. this is a nonsexual position. It is just MY answer to the "dick pics" you guys put in your profiles and attach to your mail. You want to show off your dicks? Well this is mine, and it is bigger than yours. *sweet smile* You will not impress me by sending me a photo of your cock. You'll actually ruin your chances of serving a real live Dominant Woman. Keep that in mind before you use that good ole attach button! If you really want to impress me, read the full profile!
I am a married and experienced Dominant woman. I am starting to think of a secondary sub again. While you may at times serve alongside my husband there would NEVER be any sexual contact (that means NO BI, forced or otherwise! - he is mine and I do not share!) nor would he give orders or dominate the domestic I seek. I am the only Dominant in our home!
I- the Domme- am seeking a domestic sub to free my main collared sub- my husband- up for other duties. I would be fine with a crossdresser as long as you do not expect me to "force" you. This is a totally non sexual position (no sex with me, no touching my sexual organs, no bi, forced or otherwise, no touching my feet) for someone who honestly revels in the thought of being used. However this does not mean I would not touch you. You would be subject to cbt, nipple play, cropping, spanking, clothespins on random body parts, ropes and such AFTER the housework is done. There might be flogging and caning if we both agree on it. Your hard limits will be respected.
You don't need to have much experience in BDSM to apply for this position, as the core of this position is the strong desire to please and be helpful. The rest is easy to learn. Basic remedial instructions in the way I wish you to behave would be provided during your trial period.
I would expect cleaning, perhaps some cooking, occasional chauffeuring and minor errands done. You also have the option of attending parties with my husband and me to wait upon me as I tie him up and beat him.
As I said, I would be more than willing to consider a cross dresser for this position. You must be dressing because YOU love it. Do not expect me to force you to dress. To me, cross dressing a man isn't BDSM, it is playing barbies with a life size doll. I think it would be a fun end to an afternoon of cleaning to have you give me a fashion show, experiment with makeup or go out (or Internet) shopping together for the outfit you'd wear next time.
The position is once a week for a probationary period, with more hours available as you prove your worth. Oh, and one line mails saying things like "I'd love to be your domestic." and nothing else are not acceptable. If you can't be bothered to write me an actual letter, you're wasting your time.
I do not expect to need to do a lot of correction with this submissive. I want someone who is actually striving to do his best. If you expect to come over, smudge my mirrors and get spanked for it, you're reading the wrong profile. You will clean my house for real, not as part of a fantasy scene you've dreamed up in your head. This is a real life submissive position, requiring real life service and housework. I'm not going to oversee you every second and smack you around to get you to actually do the work. That is role playing domestic submission and if you're a player, you do not fit my wants. Any play comes when your work is done.
Also, I will never be dressed in "fetish wear" when you visit. If you need specific outfits, props or scenarios you're barking up the wrong profile. I really don't care what you want. Your place in my life is as a lesser sub; someone around to scramble at my whim. You will not be a boyfriend or sex partner. I do not care if you like to do XY and Z. The only things we'll be doing are things on MY list of activities for the position. I say again, your wants don't matter at all, so make sure that you'll be fulfilled by the position before applying. I'll not alter myself one whit for you.
Also, we have cats. If you're allergic, don't apply.
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My Ideal Person:
I'm seeking a domestic sub. This is a non sexual position for someone who honestly revels in the thought of being used.
I'm looking for someone who actually gets a sense of completion from serving a woman in a domestic capacity. If you're willing to clean to just get to serve any Domme, you're not what I'm seeking- don't waste both of our time. I do not expect to need to do a lot of correction with this submissive. I want someone who is actually striving to do his best. If you expect to come over, smudge my mirrors and get spanked for it, you're reading the wrong profile. You will clean my house for real, not as part of a fantasy scene you've dreamed up in your head. This is a real life submissive position, requiring real life service and housework. I'm not going to oversee you every second and smack you around to get you to actually do the work. That is role playing domestic submission and if you're a role player, you do not fit the position.
You don't need to have much experience in BDSM to apply for this position, as the core of this position is the strong desire to please and be helpful. The rest is easy to learn. Basic remedial instructions in the way I wish you to behave would be provided during your trial period.
I would expect cleaning, some cooking, occasional chauffeuring and minor errands done. You also have the option of attending parties with my husband and me to wait upon me as I tie him up and beat him. The only thing I offer you beyond the opportunity to be used and disciplined, is the possibility of being your keyholder for the length of time you are in service to me.
I would be more than willing to consider a crossdresser for this position. You must be dressing because YOU love it. Do not expect me to force you to dress. To me, crossdressing a man isn't BDSM, it is playing barbies with a lifesize doll. I think it would be a fun end to an afternoon of cleaning to have you give me a fashion show, experiment with makeup or go out (or internet) shopping together for the outfit you'd wear next time.
The position is once a week for a probationary period, with more hours available as you prove your worth.
OTHER THAN THAT
I'm not seeking. I won't settle for some other type of sub because you don't want to be a domestic. If you want YOUR fantasy played out, go pay a Pro. I am an actual Dominant Woman, not a bored housewife wanting to get out of chores. Currently my husband does them, not me. (I want him to take some massage classes and want some of his time freed up to do so.) I am the head of my household. Think traditional 1950's home, only I'm the tyrannical husband who gets waited on hand and foot.
I don't have much tolerance for fools or players. I tend to respond negatively if I think you're one of those. I am a woman, not life support for a whip-strapon-flogger. Just because I am kinky doesn't mean I welcome photos of stranger's sex organs.
I am not Pro, and you can't buy my favors. I'm not going to meet for anything other than friendship. Keep in mind, I am not a male playtoy. I am Domme.
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