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I'm not after the finished article it doesn't exist. I am however looking for a true desire for submission and a willingness to take that next step the one that your scared of.
I have had my girl for a little over 12 years now and we are a real life real world safe and secure D/s relationship but due to illness she has some limited disability which means there are now some things she has difficulty in doing. She knows I am here and why and is happy with the situation, without openness and honesty there can be no trust without trust you have nothing but please feel free to contact her personally on here ( celestialsgirl ) if you would like confirmation of that.
The pleasure for me as a Dominant comes from those little moments when fear turns to interest, interest turns to desire and desire into need. Those hard earned successes when the exploration of submission becomes the understanding of self.
I am not looking for an affair or a replacement I am looking for a regular and long term arrangement with someone that will if the dynamic is right and the stars aline eventually become 24/7. Someone that we can share those exquisite moments where the physical and cerebral collide. Someone open honest and commited, that enjoys and understands that service is as much a part of submission as play. You do not need to be bi sexual or even bi-curious but you do need to be comfortable serving with and alongside another whether 24/7 or not as a part of a committed poly household We also live in the real world and have real world woes like everyone else I am not a billionaire with his own island so an understanding that 24/7 is often a head thing rather physical one.
Experience is not a barrier and I prefer not to have any preconceived agenda or rules, we are all different and something one may find easy another may find scary especially when starting out so I am happy if you are new. Any relationship no matter it branding is an organic thing that ebbs and flows we may influence it somewhat but it will have its own rhythm
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My Ideal Person:
Ooow this is the tricky bit.
Well you must be female and within a reasonable distance You must also be looking for regular long term and possible 24/7, it takes time to build trust and understanding so I am happy to let it have its own pace. Age is not an issue I'm not going to dismiss anyone but lets be honest I'm nearly 50 so unless your very mature or crazy for older men its not going to work if you cant remember a world before apple.
Experience is also not an issue I am perfectly happy with a newbie we all have to start somewhere and I have the time to take things as slowly as you need.
A true desire for service and submission are however essential as is the willingness to push and have pushed boundaries, to embrace the new and perfect the old. A sense of humour and the ability to laugh at yourself is always a plus. I could go one but to be honest if we click we click and if we don't then no harm done
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