Short term only
I am 39 y/o wm, 68", 175 lb. brwn hair and green eyes. Love seeing a sub down the path of their fantasies.
No BS here I'm looking for an eventual long term relationship with a sub/slave I can call my own. I've been around this block for over 16 years now, and I don't suffer fools lightly. To me everything starts in the mind. If you can't make a sub feel submissive, it doesn't matter how much money you spent on equipment you may as well quit. While I expect my partner to be serious about her submissiveness, I believe the Dom carries a heavy burden of responsibility of caring for, protecting, and nurturing his sub to be what he expects.
I've always been bothered with the word "play". To me one is sub/Dom/switch/vanilla and to play or pretend to be something you are not lessens the appeal. You may be able to get some of the motions right, but you both know it's still just an act.
I've been in positions of authority practically all my life, and I find comfort with the responsibility. While I have embraced BDSM as a part of who I am I understand the difference between reality and fantasy. Reality is a mother fucker. Like or not at some point you have to talk with each other about something besides sex, unless all you are out for is a one night stand.
I am a gentleman and a sadist, a giver and a taker, compassionate and demanding, I can give pleasure and pain equally. Don't try to pigeon hole me because it just won't work.
In short I'm looking for someone unique, a lady with the desire to be treated like a slut. One who is equally comfortable in polite company as she is kneeling at my side. One who is intelligent and can take care of herself, but desires to give up that control to another and to be used, punished, and controlled.
Safe and sane but demanding. I look forward to hearing from you.
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My Ideal Person:
sub fem 21-40, must love being submissive with a bent toward a possible 24/7 relationship. Must enjoy some or all of the of the topics outlined in my interests section. I expect my subs to be obedient and serious about exploring the darker side of themselves. I take my role very seriously. Is this you?
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