I recently had a long discussion with a friend that inspired me to put more effort into reaching out to potential contacts, so hopefully I will find more real folks here than I have in the past.
I don't believe that props or outfits make a Dom, or a sub for that matter. It's about what goes on inside ourselves and how we interact. The physical is how we influence the mind and spirit.
My experience is varied as far as kink goes. A bit of a sadist, sexually dominant but not much of an exhibitionist. The D/s dynamic is what interests me. Public scenes are not my focus, I prefer one on one interactions. I see going out in public, like play spaces/parties, as a way to explore and use different toys, devices and atmospheres. Interested in learning more about specific bondage, rope and restraint uses.
I am mostly a monogamous person by nature. I focus intellectually and emotionally on the person I am with.
Curvy women are a big turn on for me, age isn't much of an issue. I am more concerned with intelligence, spirit and maturity.
For now I am looking for practice to perfect skills explore my own boundaries and those of a sub. I have quite a bit of experience in being a sadist/masochist from past days at the old P.E. in San Francisco.
I welcome any and all to contact me.
See my FetLife profile for more, SurlyMonkey.
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My Ideal Person:
A willing sub who is seeking to explore and learn, experience is nice but not required.
If you have ever seriously thought about the difference between being passive and being submissive I would love to hear from you.
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