Mi persona ideal:
A Dom who understands that compromise is part of living together well without necessarily compromising oneself.
A Dom who is firm, patient, understanding, thoughtful, with good communication skills. He must be good with children and pets, must be self-supporting/successful and have the ability to be devoted to a relationship, and place His sub’s needs first in the relationship, which would of course be likewise returned to You as well.
If Y/you are into telling lies and playing games, please do not even bother talking to me. This may be "just chat" to M/many, but there are feelings and real P/people involved behind the words written on the screen. The harm you do is not repairable, it will be there always, a shadow of harm left on the heart and soul.